a helpmeet for him

So many women today believe that they are equal to men. I believe that the Bible teaches clearly that God made the woman for the man, to help him. It is my God given gift and greatest accomplishment to stand beside my husband and support him with all of my being. I've named this blog "A helpmeet for him" to remind me of that.

 I want to greet him at the door with only a smile and cook him the best dinners in the world. I want to go to bed every night for the rest of my life at the same time as him and commit my life to the raising of our children someday. It's what God has given me to do. It is my highest aspiration to help my husband.

One of my favorite verses clearly defines what a woman {Biblically} is supposed to be.

1 Timothy 5:14 "I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully."

Here's the summary.

1. Get married {check}
2. Bear children {trying to get through college first}
3. Take care of the house {here's the stage I'm in}
4. Ignore everyone who thinks these are stupid goals

My biggest job right now {aside from helping my husband, which is what I was created for} is to guide my household. That's an assignment from God, and I love it! :)

Laundry, dish washing, decorating, vacuuming, plant watering, sewing, meal making, and bathroom cleaning are my goals until I'm in the bearing children stage. It's ok if you don't agree, but for me, it's the highest calling a woman can have.


  1. Cathy Pearson7/1/11, 12:08 PM

    I love you darling! You are right on!

  2. Kirshtin Turner7/1/11, 4:13 PM

    ok, ok, we'll have kids!!! get off my back!


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